Is my boyfriend insensitive, selfish or is it just me?
We have been dating for 6 months. Our relationship has mostly consisted of Me going to his house, Have dinner, watch what he likes on tv in the bedroom, me massaging his feet due to his foot issues then have sex. I dont mind about doing mostly what he wants because I usually like the same things but I wish he would at least be attentive enough to ask what i would want. I recently have been out of work and dont have as much gas money to drive back and forth to his house. I told him this and he offers about half of what it takes in gas money to get there yet he buys himself whatever he wants including a recent trip to Les Vegas (said I would have to pay for myself) so he went by himself. I had to drive him to the airport and will have to pick him up because he cant drive due to a DUI. With him knowing my financial hardship, he even took me to an adult store for fun and bought $150 on lingerie and toys meanwhile I cant afford to pay my rent. Dont get me wrong he recently paid for us to go to a play and we will be going to a concert this weekend but it’s like he is living the high life while im worrying about how im going to get enough gas money to go see him. My other issue is I cant trust him 100%. He still talks to some of his ex’s. For example, he told me the other day that an ex he was with for 6 years of which he is still good friends with just recently asked him if he wanted to come to her house for a couple of days. He told me he knows she is still very much into him and he doesnt feel the same way so he doesnt want to mess her up. I wanted to hear that he would want to do that to me. Also, he recently told me that another ex tried to set him up with a girlfriend of his by going to a night club. He just told her he doesnt go to those clubs anymore. Im not sure he even tells these girls that he is in a relationship. He tells me he wants a serious relationship but it would take time. Your thoughts?
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